Choose any set with capped qui, ignore your weapon ability and str till he reached an upper RR, if he than still wanna play bard get a overkill TP. S/C, D/Q, haste, and DMG ADD charge, allcap temp. Its expensive but the only way as grp specced bard to think about another use of your sword than sidesnare

Well, gentlemen, since the final result is the following:

Weapon:
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STR: 70/75 - CON: 76/75 - DEX: 76/75 -
QUI: 75/75 - CHA: 76/75
Pow: 06/26 - Hits: 200/200

Resists
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All capped

Skills
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11/11 Blades
07/11 Music
11/11 Regrowth
04/11 Nurture

Instruments:
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STR: 70/75 - CON: 76/75 - DEX: 76/75 -
QUI: 75/75 - CHA: 76/75
Pow: 09/26 - Hits: 200/200

Resists
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All capped

Skills
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07/11 Music
11/11 Regrowth
04/11 Nurture

i think i can feel almost satisfied
Apart 5 Str and 4 music (and the useless +power) everything is perfectly capped, being a great result for a template not containing the nerdy taj2 drops

Talking about the next step, what do you suggest about alchemy?

Armor Full MHB, Shield MHB, weapon DD, and enough af charges, i usually have 75 af charges on my bard and some recharge stones to keep it up the whole time. When you see that you have time to handle debuffs you could use debuff on instruments as example.